Since becoming "funemployed" last March (has it really been almost a year?) several people still working have asked me if I miss the camaraderie of an office. I thought I would -- I really did -- but Facebook has filled that need.
I was a reluctant convert to FB, not really "getting" the point; several friends and relatives were on it and suggested I give it a try. It's about as hard to explain the lure of FB as Twitter, but I'll try...
The obvious is I keep up daily with a number of the older grandkids. I know how the Kauai grandson is doing in college in Southern California; how his brother was running the Honolulu Marathon (with my daughter posting photos and comments along his way); how 9 year old Bleu sees the world; and what our adult children are up to.
Then, there's the connections. Eric Tunison, my third-grade boyfriend, found me on FB! So have dozens of high school friends and various people from my past that I'd lost touch with. A reporter who worked for me more than 20 years ago found a typo in a post I wrote and said he's been waiting 20 years for that! My childhood next door neighbors have reconnected as well.
My current friends and neighbors offer up all kinds of info on their worlds as well. I knew that Lisa's baby was going to be a boy because they posted that when they left the doctor's office. I know which neighbors are on vacation and who their housesitter is.
Take that stew and throw in friends around the world; KVMR DJ's promoting upcoming shows; businesses telling me what's new and on sale; pages for Weight Watchers with diet and exercise tips and discussion boards.
Then there's the collective advice factor. I have nearly 500 people as FB friends, and any question is quickly answered by several of them. Kind of like Google, but with people you know making recommendations. Julie used that plumber and was happy with him? OK, sold.
The communication between friends can either be public (writing on their "wall") or private in a message that only they see. It's easier to message people on FB than sorting through different e-mail addresses.
So, all this stuff is not essential to my life. But, like the old image of the office water cooler, it's a great place to hang out for a few minutes and glean all sorts of interesting information.
Not on Facebook? It's easy to get connected. And while you're there, friend me!
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